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  • Bethany Walker
    Bethany Walker Il y a 8 mois +1214

    “You can’t have the pictures of your daughter and yourself up with her looking womanly.”
    That is a legendary level of insecure. What will happen when she finds out about the sun and realizes she’s not the center of the universe?

    • Rachel Tack
      Rachel Tack Il y a 4 jours +2

      My question....... why would any man marry a woman who could think of his daughter as competition?
      Does she have beer dispensing tatas? Is he drunk?
      I hope the daughter finds happiness far away from the mess that her father welcomed into his home. THIS is why Cinderella is more relevant than we might think. And why step-parents get such a bad wrap.

    • Bethany Hanna
      Bethany Hanna Il y a 12 jours +1

      Great names think alike. 😘🤣

    • Maria J W
      Maria J W Il y a 17 jours

      @Harshita Bhuyan read again. She didn't say the sun is the centre of the universe.

    • dragonkitten
      dragonkitten Il y a 29 jours

      Omg lmao

    • Iwantedtobe007
      Iwantedtobe007 Il y a 2 mois

      👏👏👏 the centre of the universe part 😂😂😂

  • emerald
    emerald Il y a 9 mois +1848

    the fact that the dad didn’t DROP his fiancé the second she showed issue with his DAUGHTER is mind blowing. no one would ever come between my kids and i. that’s insane. i feel so bad for that girl.

    • Cherise Davidson
      Cherise Davidson Il y a mois

      Was looking for this comment lol

    • L A
      L A Il y a mois +1

      @Patrizia Mares we think the same. I'm also widowed. I'm still not up to dating, but my daughter knows that she will continue to come first. And she absolutely has "veto powers" if she doesn't like the person. My mom married someone who was mean to me. I don't think it's fair to sacrifice her childhood and home for...literally anyone.

    • Awenda
      Awenda Il y a mois

      Divorces are all pending. So selfish!

    • donato286
      donato286 Il y a mois +2

      Moreover, the dad is rationalizing the fact that his fiancée doesn't want to be around his younger daughter by saying that she is a person of exquisite taste.
      I'd love to have some good old-fashioned parenting time with the guy and his fiancée.

    • SamIAm1260
      SamIAm1260 Il y a mois

      One of my FIL's got married with the understanding that his current wife would divorce him if his underage child ever came to live with him for more than a week. He happily married this woman and has not been involved in his life in much more than money. He has visited for a few holidays and always surprised why his teenager is disrespectful of the family at large and new wife specifically. 🤦🏻‍♀️

  • Lauren van Winkle
    Lauren van Winkle Il y a 9 mois +636

    Fast forward 10 years to the divorced guy in a bar, crying in his beer about why his youngest daughter refuses to have anything to do with him.

    • L A
      L A Il y a mois +2

      @Sincerely Yours lol, I was about to write the exact same thing.

    • Sincerely Yours
      Sincerely Yours Il y a mois +6

      Or why he’s mad at his ex for taking everything and his daughter won’t help him.

    • CynAnne1
      CynAnne1 Il y a 4 mois +11

      👏👏💯👏👏

    • Daren
      Daren Il y a 5 mois +24

      Facts to the two comments above me

  • montia larson
    montia larson Il y a 9 mois +388

    The brides that get mad at their bridesmaid for cutting their hair because of health reasons are the worst. "I'm so sorry that you might die from this illness but it doesn't fit with my aesthetic so...." Those people are horrible. How the hell do they have a fiance, let alone friends?

    • Megan Roberts
      Megan Roberts Il y a 2 mois +2

      Life presents opertunities to behave like a decent person, it's gonna bite them later

    • SzeChuOn
      SzeChuOn Il y a 3 mois +4

      It’s all about the photos with these women. They care way too much about their GD vanity.

  • Purple Citrine
    Purple Citrine Il y a 9 mois +3806

    my dad chose his gf over me. I moved out into a group home at age 15. he got married to her shortly after I turned 16. i went into foster care where I was loved and I healed. when I emancipated I found out they had already divorced and he was all alone

    • Surftouka
      Surftouka Il y a 14 jours +1

      Just dropped in to say hi 🙂letting you know I've not forgotten you & still praying. Hoping all is well.❤

    • Purple Citrine
      Purple Citrine Il y a 14 jours

      @AJ J ☺❤

    • AJ J
      AJ J Il y a 14 jours +1

      😀🙏

    • Purple Citrine
      Purple Citrine Il y a 16 jours

      @elderford989 thank you ☺

    • elderford989
      elderford989 Il y a 16 jours +2

      Sorry you had to go through that but proud of you for overcoming all that crap!

  • plumreid
    plumreid Il y a 9 mois +420

    You can't have a child free wedding if you already have children. I'm sure the father will blame his ex wife for the ruined relationship with his daughter.

    • Joce C
      Joce C Il y a 3 mois +3

      @Gigi La Moore I mean if they already have children of their own it seems like it would be a win for all. I'm not saying everyone has to have to have kids at a wedding. I'm saying there are options between kid and no kids. I thought I would present this option as I thought it was a really neat idea that one might not think of, and it made this couples wedding a little less stressful. I thought it might help someone here.

    • Gigi La Moore
      Gigi La Moore Il y a 3 mois +3

      @Joce C maybe they don't do that because they don't want to. They're not obligated to make arrangements for other people's children. I am a mother myself, but I understand that children are not wanted or even necessary everywhere.

    • Joce C
      Joce C Il y a 3 mois +3

      I went to a wedding once were the church it was being held at also rented out the daycare room. The couple just had to hired a babysitter and pay like a cleaning fee. I don't understand why some of these couples don't just do that. Specially in a place like a church that probably already has a daycare room. Many churches are struggling financially and could use the extra cash. It would be a win win.

    • Lauren M
      Lauren M Il y a 4 mois +14

      We had a child free reception. Our son was almost 2 and was our page boy and was present at the ceremony (he spent most of the time standing up there with us which was cute) but for the reception we hired a babysitter so he and his young cousins could have a pizza and movie party in the hotel across the road. The kids had a ball, and so did the adults. Win win

    • Gigi La Moore
      Gigi La Moore Il y a 6 mois +3

      Yep.

  • Meredith Szymanski
    Meredith Szymanski Il y a 9 mois +537

    I’m a baker… that cake would take DAYS. Also, $200 would not even cover ingredient and decor items 🤦🏼‍♀️

    • the forgotten
      the forgotten Il y a 27 jours

      @NerdGeek Cosplay are you gouging at the cake??? you need to be gentle with the cake and not go back over and over the same spot with the frosting..also the is a first layer of frosting done to help with this issue its usually only a small amount of frosting...never lift your spatula up when frosting..that motion rips the cake up..

    • Ginny Nelson
      Ginny Nelson Il y a mois

      Same thing with knitting a sweater. $5 wouldn't even cover the darning needle, let alone the yarn and the needles. People don't understand how expensive this shit gets!

    • Stuff With Soph
      Stuff With Soph Il y a mois +1

      @Anna Kube It covers how much the cake cost plus the baker's time and of course turning a profit...$2000 is pricy but reasonable for what they were given, just annoying she didn't EXPECT IT, if you can't afford a pricy cake that's okay just please understand what you can afford before hand

    • Ian Lister
      Ian Lister Il y a 2 mois +3

      Probably edible gold embellishments too.

    • Eliza
      Eliza Il y a 2 mois +1

      @NerdGeek Cosplay freeze them work on crumb coat then refrigerate 20/30 min then next layer of frosting smooth refrigerate again and resmooth as for falling cakes boba straws are helpful if 3rd layer if bigger than that cake board between tiers of cakewith boba straws happy baking

  • Mantaqa
    Mantaqa Il y a 4 mois +30

    Jeez...That guy's a piece of sh*t!...I can't believe how selfish you have to be to abandon your crying daughter to protect your fiancee's "vision"....

  • Caramel Princess
    Caramel Princess Il y a 4 mois +37

    The bride who said, "either I pay for my son's surgery or pay the florist, guess what I just won't have flower" yes. Some other brides should take note. You should arrange your wedding around your funds.

  • Diana Shelton
    Diana Shelton Il y a 9 mois +3338

    When I got married I had no money. I made a wedding with a couple hundred dollars. I baked a tiered cake (it was beautiful and yum!), I didn’t have a fancy wedding dress and my husband didn’t have a fancy suit. We married on a deck with a view which was connected to my mothers house. What I realized is I could have waited and saved for many many years but seeing my husband there waiting for me smiling with a tear in his eye was the most amazing feeling in the world. Sometimes I think I would have wanted a better dress but when I remember his smile, I regret nothing. I’d have married him in a garbage bag and if he gave me that look I’d still be happy.

    • Bethany Hanna
      Bethany Hanna Il y a 12 jours

      My parents served hard salami on generic white bread sandwiches at their wedding. The few people who took issue with how "cheap" the wedding was, ended up divorced. My parents were together 40 years, til death did they part. 💜

    • Rach Ann
      Rach Ann Il y a 24 jours

      Sounds like you knew what the wedding was supposed to be about

    • Joce C
      Joce C Il y a 3 mois

      I eloped. I wore a white dress I found on sale last minute. Husband wore a suit he already had that I loved on him. We went to the courthouse and were married by a judge. Only ones in attendance were my parents and best friend. Best friend took two photos for me. Mom's camera gave out during at the kiss and deleted the whole ceremony. My husband often feels bad because he knows I wanted the big wedding, but if we had a big wedding we would have had to save for years. Our wedding would have taken place in 2020. Instead of being stressed out over a wedding during the pandemic we were celebrating our 4th wedding anniversary. I liked that better. :)

    • TheBre1491
      TheBre1491 Il y a 4 mois

      I love this. To me a wedding means nothing without a groom that loves me, and if I see that love in any way…I’ll be happy. Glad you got an amazing day even without all the fancy toppings.

    • Chaotic Pessimist
      Chaotic Pessimist Il y a 5 mois

      I'm not married.
      But i think spending literally thousands on their is really insane.
      I understand it's expensive but I think there is a budget and I would wear a trash can if it was so😂.
      I'm so happy for you ❤
      Like you don't have to spend that much bc the experience and what is going on is what matters the most, beautiful moment.

  • Icarus Binns
    Icarus Binns Il y a 9 mois +112

    I can’t comprehend not having your kids there, or having your friends exactly as they are at your wedding!
    I was in a bridal party where all the other girls had long hair, but I had this awkward, going-scruffy pixie cut. I had been looking at wigs, to try and match, but my friend said, “No way! Wear that cute plaid-bow headband you have!” And one of the other bridesmaids worked some magic with a small curler. It didn’t matter that I had the short hair! My friend still insisted I be there!

    • Brenda Paduch
      Brenda Paduch Il y a mois +5

      I’m glad you have a good friend, but I’m sad that it seems like she’s exceptional for just being a decent human being.

    • Harleen Schenk
      Harleen Schenk Il y a mois +6

      I was the same, my closest best friend shaved the side of her head and did a viking style hair do. I didn't Care, I thought it was different and I loved it.

    • Esmeralda Green
      Esmeralda Green Il y a 5 mois +9

      Icarus Binns because she truly was your friends.

  • Kalani Saiko
    Kalani Saiko Il y a 4 mois +46

    1:13 also the fact that the lady feels threatened by her spouse's MINOR daughter presents issues of its own

  • Magdalena2113
    Magdalena2113 Il y a 9 mois +66

    The last story just absolutely broke my heart!! I can’t imagine not wanting to have my children in my wedding. It’s an expansion of their family to be celebrated! Poor baby.
    And what kind of asshole marries/stays with someone that doesn’t like their kids?!?

  • Reverend Wyrm
    Reverend Wyrm Il y a 9 mois +276

    The "S*** You Need to Know" invite is possibly the single best wedding invitation I have ever seen. They clearly have a sense of humour and I would totally go to that wedding, you know, if I didn't have kids and got turned away.

    • Suan
      Suan Il y a 2 mois +1

      Exactly and if people think that invitation is wrong, they obviously don't know the couple getting married lol

    • •𝓰𝔀𝓮𝓶𝓭𝓪𝓫𝓸𝓶𝓫•
      •𝓰𝔀𝓮𝓶𝓭𝓪𝓫𝓸𝓶𝓫• Il y a 3 mois +4

      @Ano Nomous as a teenager I can confirm that I hate weddings, they give me major headaches and the boredom gets to me, not to mention the younger children running around and being loud are also pretty annoying

    • Bryanna Cloutier
      Bryanna Cloutier Il y a 3 mois +5

      @Jessica Couzner at my friends wedding she had a taco bar catered because tacos had to do with how they met, so they couldn’t offer other options as they’d have to pay another company, but they told people in advance and put a “dietary specials” option and her dad actually reached out to people who had rsvp’d saying they had dietary needs and found out their favorite meals and went shopping and cooked for them so they didn’t have to worry about it. (This was also Texas so most people ate the tacos, the ones who didn’t were a couple of older ladies who needed soft foods and a young boy with autism. My son didn’t eat them either but he was going through a phase so we brought stuff for him)

    • Alexis Z
      Alexis Z Il y a 3 mois +4

      I loved the invite. I think not having random kids at the wedding is a great idea. I couldn't hear my friend getting married due to screaming kids that the parents would not take out. It was so awkward.

    • Jessica Couzner
      Jessica Couzner Il y a 3 mois +8

      Honestly, the only part I had an issue with on that invitation was the “dietary requirements“ section, because I have some food allergies and intolerances, and also IBS, so unfortunately I need to be more particular with what I eat

  • Katerina Stoeva
    Katerina Stoeva Il y a 9 mois +14

    I have only one question, which has been bothering ever since I've discovered this channel: HOW, how do these women get to find someone to propose and marry them? Seriously, they sound like horrible, absolutely selfish people without a single drop of empathy in them, who will bulldoze anything and anyone for the smallest reason. How do men want to spend their life with this?

    • Dame DuckSauce
      Dame DuckSauce Il y a 12 jours +2

      I could tell you, but it might get me flagged. A lot of men only think with one appendage.

    • Terri Waldridge
      Terri Waldridge Il y a mois +1

      Lol Katrina Stoeva men want the hateful women! They don’t want nice, agreeable women. I don’t know how many men I dated that told me how sweet I was and what a witch their ex wife was…but I got dumped just as soon as the witch decided she wanted his wallet back.

  • Niki Black-Rudolph
    Niki Black-Rudolph Il y a 9 mois +13

    My dad emailed out pictures from his surprise 60th birthday party (I was living in another state) dressed in a tux and it included a picture of my half sister and her boyfriend as well. I replied to all on the email and wrote, “I’m glad you had a great party and I would’ve come to the party had I known about it.
    My step mother replied and said she was sorry and that it wasn’t anything big just FAMILY and a few close friends. I’m like WTF am I?!?!?!

  • Dana Michelle
    Dana Michelle Il y a 9 mois +50

    To Cake lady: take into consideration the cost of quality ingredients that won't melt during your ceremony, time baking, mixing the frosting and making it look perfect, forming the decorations by hand, edible gold, time stacking, AND TRANSPORTING THIS INTACT. Seriously, formal cake decorators are superhuman. I can't even go a mile without spilling coffee.

  • nrocinu nogard
    nrocinu nogard Il y a 4 mois +5

    Weddings aren't "a private day". They're public, legal declarations that require witnesses.

  • doomsday addams
    doomsday addams Il y a 9 mois +2706

    That’s not a “wears the pants” issue; that’s a “you’re not gaining a stepmother, you’re losing your father” issue.

    • Fragile Like A Bomb
      Fragile Like A Bomb Il y a 3 mois +2

      I hate that saying. We both wear the pants.

    • en de
      en de Il y a 6 mois +1

      @ZaraMikazuki i think the 18yr old isn't an arsehole. i think the stepmother and father are arseholes, but you can't expect their child (18yr old) to parent the other child (9yr old). frankly it's an unfair situation for both children. i'm not quite sure how this man reached the point of even entertaining getting married to a woman who clearly dislikes the child that will be living with them, to the point that she instigates cutting her out of family occasions. while the 18yr old could stay home, we don't know how the 18yr usually acts. if the younger girl is often left alone by parents, perhaps the 18yr old often stays home and cares for her, in which case i could imagine it would be frustrating and feel unfair. it shouldn't be the responsibility of the 18yr old to step up, after all; the dad should stop letting himself and his daughter be walked over by a woman who has decided to treat his daughter like shit

    • Riku Black
      Riku Black Il y a 7 mois

      @ZaraMikazuki I agree, unless, however, she wasn't aware her little sister wasn't invited.

    • INTROMED
      INTROMED Il y a 7 mois +8

      @readerunite exactly , if you are 18 you have to f-ing think for yourself .... I hate my father deeply for not coming and not being there when my sister was sick and with a 40 degree fever ( celsius ) in the f-ing hospital and she was only 1 year old . She doesn't even remember it ,but I will always will remember the feeling I got when I went home to update him that my mother was so scared we would loose her - and he didn't even flinch , in fact his sister ( not my aunt ; she doesn't deserve the title ) and her issues about how she couldn't sell some mlm clothes she bought were more important . I would and still see him in the eyes , and tell him to go and cry to his siter about any issue he might have . I just say : you either want US ( me and my sister) or you do not . Now you can cross the f - ing mountain for me and you are still not my father anymore . Mind you this is the dad that for me would physically kill anyone...

  • Part-Time Rv Love Affair
    Part-Time Rv Love Affair Il y a 5 mois +15

    I was not only not invited to a wedding of my mother's when I was around 13 or 14 (but not told till right before it), I am somewhat certain he did not even know I existed at that point. My older (19-ish) half-sister flew in and went to the wedding, but I was left home with my other step dad. Parenting fails don't just belong to the guys.

  • Raven Moonsinger
    Raven Moonsinger Il y a 4 mois +4

    I can tell you that wedding cakes cost as much as they do for a reason. I had a friend that made her living from baking/decorating wedding and special occasion cakes in her home. It requires patience, steady hands, imagination and culinary skills. It can take days to put together a single wedding cake because not only does it have to look good, but it also has to taste good. If you have multiple tiers with several types of filling and then you want fancy flowers and embellishments like sugar sculpture or edible lace, my hands are cramping up just thinking about it. It's worth every nickel this woman asked you to pay.

  • Mickey Rob
    Mickey Rob Il y a 6 mois +12

    I was in a wedding where one bridesmaid dropped out last minute. We went ahead without her and I got to be walked down the aisle with two groomsmen. The whole day was a blast, as it was the hubby that wanted that bridesmaid, so no big loss.

  • Heartsmyface Forever
    Heartsmyface Forever Il y a 9 mois +10

    Imagine not inviting your child to the literal event where she gets a new mother.

  • Sarah
    Sarah Il y a 9 mois +6605

    You know these “dads” marrying women who dislike their children also had dating profiles saying “my daughter is my world” 🙄🙄

    • Charlie
      Charlie Il y a mois

      That's mine he hasn't talked to me in literal years and the last time I actually SAW him I was 10, that was over a decade ago. Unfortunate, I truely am fatherless lol.

    • Gareth Pendlebury
      Gareth Pendlebury Il y a 2 mois +1

      @Just Me That's just disgusting. She'd be kicked to the kerb. I'm even wondering if it's true. If it's not just a made up bit of fiction. Surly it must be.What person would treat their child so coldly??

    • Puan
      Puan Il y a 2 mois

      @Just Me atleast she’s got some great grandparents

    • Rebecca Rankin
      Rebecca Rankin Il y a 2 mois

      @Carolyn Davey "a" .....what? Did the rest of your comment get accidentally erased?

    • Carolyn Davey
      Carolyn Davey Il y a 2 mois

      @Rebecca Rankin a

  • J __
    J __ Il y a 6 mois +8

    Nothing wrong with saving money, the issue is when we put this "wish to save money" above other's dignity and needs. If I can't pay professionals: I won't guilt trip them.

  • Ashley Taylor
    Ashley Taylor Il y a 9 mois +6

    I've watched so many of these and I'm always baffled at how rude these bridezillas are. I always wonder where the groom is in all of this? they let their fiances act like this?

  • kikitab
    kikitab Il y a 8 mois +5

    hey Charlotte, I always LOL so much with your videos! Especially entitled bridezillas 😂 BTW, have you seen this new bridezilla case? A 15 yo girl was in reddit commenting on her father's fiancé, who wants the girl to cut her hair short because "she is going to outshine her at the wedding" and the father agreed with bridezilla, told her to cut her hair!! OMG, the girl says it is because she looks a lot like her late mum, that dies of cancer 2 years ago and bridezilla is jealous... like WTF? I lost the link, but if you find it maybe you can add it on your next Entitled bridezilla video

  • RainbowShineLove
    RainbowShineLove Il y a 6 mois +83

    Fun fact: Divorced fathers OFTEN prioritize their new wife over their children, especially if they have a daughter. I know this because it happened to me. When I was 4 my parents got divorced and both married other people. The woman my father married had two daughters of her own and all three of them treated me like less than shit on the bottom of your shoe and my father never did anything about it. He instead ignored everything and stayed in his garage all day. He even allowed the oldest sister to literally throw away my BED that was at his house and buy a new one for her sister. It was quite literally as if one week I had a bed and the next my bed was gone and I was told to sleep in the living room on the couch or on an old air mattress.
    There are good fathers in the world, but I've seen more shit fathers than good ones, and that's not a good sign.

    • Amber Owen
      Amber Owen Il y a mois +1

      This is absolutely horrible and I’m sorry you went through that, as a mom of 3 that co parents I can’t imagine not prioritizing my child and your statement is not factual actually, statistically from a study by the Association for Children for Enforcement of Support show that this occurs more with mothers than it does fathers but in our society we demonize fathers after divorce more then moms, when a mom chooses a partner over her children, isn’t involved, abandons them etc society in general blames the father and treats him as if he was so horrible and drove her away so most fathers in this situation don’t vent, reach out for support etc whereas a mother in this situation receives support and validation from most. It understandable that people who have suffered a traumatic experience due to something like this make that assumption but in reality this is anecdotal, there are just as many good fathers as there are mothers that prioritize their kids and would tell anyone to go F themselves for treating their child badly.

    • Monique MacNaughton
      Monique MacNaughton Il y a mois +2

      Throwing out your bed? Jeez, that might have been against the terms of visitation as defined by the judge and legal system. The non-custodial parent is usually REQUIRED to have adequate accommodations for a child on visitation.

    • RainbowShineLove
      RainbowShineLove Il y a 6 mois +16

      @Ariel's Mangos Yeah a bit, but the saving grace for my story is my mother married a man who, while not perfect and could be an ass, treated me as his own daughter and even always introduced me as his daughter, rather than his step daughter.
      While my biological father failed me in many ways, and still does to this day, my step father never did. While my biological father is still alive, I lost my real dad at the age of 12 when my step father passed away from liver cancer.

    • Ariel's Mangos
      Ariel's Mangos Il y a 6 mois +1

      Sounds like a Cinderella story

    • RainbowShineLove
      RainbowShineLove Il y a 6 mois +8

      @Ashley Chandler To be fair, the oldest one was in fact not a looker, and she was the one who did the most damage. She hated the fact that her mother married a man that wasn't her father, and since she couldn't take it out on him, she took it out on me. I have MANY stories about that GROWN WOMAN treating a child like shit, just because she was mad that her mother didn't get back together with her father, but the one about the bed has always stuck out to me in my memory.

  • Black Oni
    Black Oni Il y a 9 mois +3099

    The man who excluded is daughter from his wedding is a failure of a father...the wedding is the start..i hate to imagine what life is gonna be like for that 9 year old

    • Suan
      Suan Il y a 2 mois

      For a long time it's gonna be so bad for the daughter but hopefully she will know one day that she's better without that toxic person in her life.

    • Megan Roberts
      Megan Roberts Il y a 2 mois

      Sad to say they tend to be treated like an old shoe that's in the way or forgot

    • sarah s
      sarah s Il y a 4 mois

      @Jacob Campbell a 9 year old girl would not make the wedding about her. Are you the father in question or have you done the same thing to your children? Because that's the only reason I could think of for anyone to support a dad like this.

    • Elisa Katarina
      Elisa Katarina Il y a 6 mois

      Ikr🥺💔

    • Michaela Elvidge
      Michaela Elvidge Il y a 6 mois +1

      Sounds like a total evil step mother story in the making. Poor girl.

  • Courtney Mitchell
    Courtney Mitchell Il y a 9 mois +11

    I had 2 bridesmaids to my husbands 1 groomsman. Our guests loved the non symmetrical bridal party. It also allowed us to fit a highchair at the bridal table for our 7month old son, by not having the 2nd groomsman (priorities you know, lol).

  • Avaline Riley
    Avaline Riley Il y a 6 mois +6

    That father one got absolutely hammered in the comments section.
    Funniest thing was he tried to backpeddle and say maybe he was an AH but only because he wanted his parents to stop being mad at him because they said they would take the youngest and he said no, she had to stay home alone.

  • You
    You Il y a 7 mois +11

    I'm 54 and have recently met my 22 year old nephew for the first time. He and I get along great. His girlfriend and he came to stay with me for two days, and after the first night, she acted differently, like a jealous woman. I found out that she was angry that while she was still asleep (at 11:00AM) my nephew and I went down to my garden to run through the sprinklers, fully clothed. I left her a note, but she was pissed.
    I'm old enough to be his mother, and I'm his AUNT. Ffs.

  • Chris Stewart
    Chris Stewart Il y a 9 mois +5

    4:13 To be fair if the bridesmaid is out of her depression streak, and has worn wigs for other events, it does not sound like that much of a big deal to ask if she would be OK to do so for the wedding, on the condition that it would be perfectly fine if she does not do it. Like in "I have this vision and would love it if you could do this for me, only if you are OK with it"

  • Samantha Amy
    Samantha Amy Il y a 9 mois +749

    I remember hearing that last one before. Apparently his parents found out that he’s not having his 9 year old there and they decided they’re not going and will instead take the 9 year old somewhere fun for the day. The op was upset because he wanted his parents at his wedding but they wouldn’t budge. If his daughter isn’t there then they aren’t going. End of discussion. I remember that there were some great comments from Redditors telling him how awful he is. I think he took the post down after a day. Clearly he didn’t get the answer he wanted, but at least we know that kids grandparents have her back.

    • JQ Hani
      JQ Hani Il y a 2 mois +2

      I'm so glad to hear that not every single adult in that child's life is failing her

    • Dan
      Dan Il y a 6 mois

      @HobbyFarm2014 Well, the first part is already in the video 🤷‍♀️

    • Gigi La Moore
      Gigi La Moore Il y a 6 mois

      @Usagi Felton Amen.

    • Miz Mima
      Miz Mima Il y a 6 mois +8

      @Pumpkin remember that she hated her at 6 years old till 9 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

  • Nilupulie Sumanasiri
    Nilupulie Sumanasiri Il y a 9 mois +6

    13:05 If my soon to be stepmom treats my little sister like that (and my dad approves it), I'd surely be pissed. Im gonna take her and move out.

    • ra乙
      ra乙 Il y a 3 mois

      Is she nice to you all?

  • OB1KoB
    OB1KoB Il y a 9 mois +6

    OMG your first story…I was part of that group when she posted that and saw her get completely owned by everyone in the group lol Members messaged her husband and daughter telling them how psycho she was. I saw the picture she’s referring to and it was the most basic father daughter picture imaginable 🤣

  • ProxUrAimz
    ProxUrAimz Il y a 6 mois +5

    As someone who's allergic to perfume that "you disrespect me with your illness" attitude is all too familiar to me :') And it's a lot more common than it has any business to be

  • Skye Starkey
    Skye Starkey Il y a 5 mois +3

    It’s so refreshing to see people appreciating how long it takes & how much skill it takes to make cakes like that.

  • Carlos Arturo Velarde
    Carlos Arturo Velarde Il y a 9 mois +1668

    How can these guys marry a woman who doesn’t LOVE his children?!?!?

    • Sincerely Yours
      Sincerely Yours Il y a mois +1

      Or even LIKE his kids! I would never. I’m so glad my guy loves my daughter.

    • Melissa Harris
      Melissa Harris Il y a 2 mois +1

      @ADRX Deedrich Yup. My father did that to me. My step-mother has openly insulted me and my wife many times. Name-calling, insults to intelligence and has even talked shit about my mother in front of him. He's never defended me. In fact, over the years he's started chiming in.
      Some fathers just lose their self-awareness at some point in their lives.

    • Inkedmom Blu
      Inkedmom Blu Il y a 3 mois

      Right?! Kids come first. I won’t be with someone who wouldn’t love my children. Period!

  • Carmilla Bathory
    Carmilla Bathory Il y a 7 mois +3

    I absolutely love Charlotte’s videos and all her content. I feel like she a kindred spirit. I feel like I can relate to her.

  • meinenklinke
    meinenklinke Il y a 7 mois +1

    I wasn’t a bridesmaid at my best friend’s wedding in college because her husband refused to pick a fourth groomsman. It sucked, tbh. It felt really crappy. Like, we had a really solid trio of girlfriends and after her sisters she could only pick one of us… and it was eerily easy for her to pick. I ended up manning the guest book.

  • B Hart
    B Hart Il y a 9 mois +8

    I would really love to see some statistics on how many LTR (romantic, friendships, etc) are completely ruined every year because of the narcissism of bridezillas. That would be an interesting read.

  • the lovers
    the lovers Il y a 6 mois +2

    Never would I ever pick someone over my kid. My husband heard these in the background and he was like "how can you listen to those they make my blood boil?" I said well they are being shit talked so it ain't like they are in the right

  • Laboni Hira
    Laboni Hira Il y a 9 mois +1222

    The last guy who didn't wanna invite his 9y/o daughter to the wedding : way to destroy your relationship with your daughter. Pretty sure she'll hold on to this for years and will probably cut all contacts with you in the future.

    • Steve S J
      Steve S J Il y a mois +2

      How come the older sister isn’t upset?!

    • Steve S J
      Steve S J Il y a mois +2

      I hope she does cut all ties and becomes his healthcare proxy after the woman he marries takes all his money lol

    • Chihiro Kannda
      Chihiro Kannda Il y a 2 mois +7

      First priority should always be your children. Sorry, but future spouses come second to that. And while his fiancee is an absolute hag for treating a young girl like this, her father is worse because it's his responsibility to make sure she's loved and protected. Horrible.

    • Binary Stitch
      Binary Stitch Il y a 2 mois +5

      can confirm. That shit is forever.

    • Sheyanne V
      Sheyanne V Il y a 2 mois +9

      As someone who wasn't invited to my mom's wedding, you are absolutely correct. That's a type of rejection you never forget

  • Valerie King
    Valerie King Il y a 9 mois +1

    I have been a subscriber for over two years and I'm so happy for you; your channel and videos are so popular. The bridezillas, entitled brides, entitled Karens, awful wedding videos are amazing; many of them reaching over a 1 million views!!! Congrats on how far you've come since your days at IO. I stopped watching IO videos after you left; it just wasn't the same. I know your job is incredibly time consuming; putting out videos 7 days a week must be mind numbing. Thank you for all you do!!

  • Jay Pritchett
    Jay Pritchett Il y a jour

    *With mine and my hubby’s wedding, we didn’t spend a lot!!!*
    My wedding dress was *$40* and I still wear it every month! 😉 And my hubby wore a white dress-shirt and black vest, which he still wears all the time too 😁
    We just had a homemade potluck dinner. And for our cake, we had plain cheesecake from *Costco,* but put a bunch of toppings out for people to have what they wanted on it.
    So, most of the money that was spent was on food.

  • Bri Sims
    Bri Sims Il y a 8 mois +5

    holy shit!!!! the one about the 3 day wedding is my friend!!!!!!!! that's her reddit post. it got picked up by the insider and she is suing the girl. they were best friends all throughout college and the girl that kicked her out of the wedding is a photographer and did her wedding photos as well as my daughters photos for her birthday! holy crap im screenshotting this and sending it to her 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • MarshL
    MarshL Il y a 6 mois +3

    The 'shit you need to know' wedding invitation is a howl! Loved it 😂😂😂

  • BamaMom02
    BamaMom02 Il y a 9 mois +2467

    That poor kid who’s dad said his new fiancé “doesn’t like young children” makes me wonder why a dad with a young child chose to marry such a witch.

    • JkButterfly
      JkButterfly Il y a 4 mois

      @Jeffrey Clinard"Some future therapist is gonna buy a new car with the money they made from that decision" I'm stealing that line lmao

    • Moon
      Moon Il y a 4 mois

      Witches love kids.

    • Sara
      Sara Il y a 4 mois +1

      @Aliya its crazy to marry a man who has kids If you don't like kids, speacially If he has custody. You gonna live with the kid, choose to live with a kid and not treat the child with affection and respect is abusive.
      I don't wanna have kids, I would not date a man who has young children ( I like kids, would never be mean to them, the thing is I don't think its reasonable to have a long term relationship with someone who has kids without taking some parent part, what I don't wanna do)

    • AJ MS
      AJ MS Il y a 4 mois +1

      My ex husband.
      I don't like other pples kids either but that is why I don't date or wed caretaking fathers.

  • Aida Kolenovic
    Aida Kolenovic Il y a 9 mois +5

    The last one made me mad. How can a father do that to his own daughter?

  • Sienna jade music
    Sienna jade music Il y a 6 mois +2

    3:49 unpopular opinion but i freaking love this. its so sarcastic and passive aggressive I kind of love it. i don't think its insane I think its hilarious and would love it if I received it from someone😂

  • Diamond Blevins
    Diamond Blevins Il y a 9 mois +5

    I saw the last story on a tiktok post and I just wanted to say that I love the girls grandparents. They (the mom and dad of the dad) were mad at their son for not letting the 9yo go so they said they weren’t going and were going to take the 9yo out that day instead since she couldn’t go.

  • LC Lane
    LC Lane Il y a 12 jours

    7:46. This is just another reason to get away from the whole obsession with expensive weddings.
    And agree, this plea could just be fraud.

  • Amanda Stetson
    Amanda Stetson Il y a 9 mois +789

    The first story is really yuck. Why is she jealous of his own daughter? That's a very twisted mindset and a huge red flag.

    • Jaimi Cottrill
      Jaimi Cottrill Il y a 8 mois

      @Frederick Saxton That’s not at all what I said, how did you come to this conclusion. I’m just saying that it’s possible the stepdaughter might have lied about what her step mother has said. We are only hearing her side of things and it’s not inconceivable that she may have lied or twisted facts. As I said in my original post, it is hard to know what really happened since none of us know them or what really happened. I also said if the story is true, then the stepmother is despicable and the father should leave her immediately. Please read my original post properly before commenting. 😉

    • Jaimi Cottrill
      Jaimi Cottrill Il y a 9 mois

      @Natasha Warden I’m not defending abuse, how on earth did you come to that conclusion? I’m saying, don’t be quick to judge when we are only getting the girls side of the story. The woman is truly awful if the story is true, I’m just saying, as someone who has been awful to a step parent, unless you know either of the party in this story don’t jump to judgment (as you have done with me).

    • Edellea
      Edellea Il y a 9 mois +1

      @Poochie Collins no worries! i don't mind explaining at all. i remember always thinking 'why don't you just break up?!" when i've had friends in similar situations in the past, it seems so simple and like a no brainer, but you really can't fully understand why until you get into the same situation. obviously i'm speaking from my own experiences and others might have totally different reasons, but i think one thing we all share is the feeling of being trapped as if you can't simply leave.

    • Poochie Collins
      Poochie Collins Il y a 9 mois +1

      @Edellea : appreciate the long explanation, thanks! I haven't understood why many women and sometimes men stay in a toxic relationship for a long time, especially if they're clearly a terrible person or they're committing flagrant abuse (neither is necessarily the case in your situation). And, I'm a pretty curious type, wanting to understand why things happen the way they do.

  • WouldYouJust _
    WouldYouJust _ Il y a 9 mois +3

    I didn't have bridesmaids because of the fact I had more "close" girlfriends than my husband did close dude friends. I got a ton of shit from my oldest/one of my closest friends (27 year friendship) for not adding her to the non-existent bridal party, or booting my best friend as Matron of Honor (who's beautiful house/yard WAS THE VENUE) for her. Bridal parties are overrated. I caught that oldest friend of 27 years in bed with my married brother later on. Right after his wife of a year/partner of 5 years gave birth to their first/only child. I can't imagine how much I would hate my wedding pictures if she was in all of them. Shitty pictures avoided for me, and I divorced my brother at the same time as his now ex wife. Haven't talked to him or my ex friend in 4 years. I love my ex SIL though, and my nephew is the most amazing little man, omg. Again, WEDDING/BRIDAL PARTIES ARE OVERRATED😂. The more you have, the more margin there is for error as time passes 😂😬🤢

  • fHinZ SNklon
    fHinZ SNklon Il y a 6 mois +2

    The first story reminds me of when someone told my mom that my father going out with another woman ... turn out that woman was me lol. But yeah, that bride has weird request asking the groom to take out pictures with his daughter. Also like the other story about the groom didn't want to include his youngest daughter to his wedding? I think both stories has similarity - if you are marrying someone who has children, you also need to get the children to accept you or else, you will be the wicked stepparent 😱.

    • Lunetta Suzie Jewel
      Lunetta Suzie Jewel Il y a mois

      My Aunt Dolores has a story about how one time she, as a teenager, and her father went to the movies together, and while they were standing in line for tickets two older ladies behind them were judging them. "What a disgrace." "That young girl with that older man."
      Luckily for them my aunt and grampop thought it was hysterical 😂😂
      Similar thing happened to me when I rented a house from a then-friend's aunt, Elaine...it was a mother-daughter house, and Elaine's mother lived in one section of it. Apparently she was shocked to learn I was a lesbian because of the "older man that was always coming around the house." Responds Elaine, "You mean her father???"

  • LovePsychos
    LovePsychos Il y a 8 mois +2

    0:16 Alright! This is a huge red flag for the man. His future wife is jealous of HIS daughter?? Really? I would have dumped her in a heartbeat. His life will be Hell!

  • RuthMcL1979
    RuthMcL1979 Il y a 4 mois +1

    OMG!! I am sooo grateful for my kids!! My oldest got married about 2.5yrs ago when she was 23. Her and my awesome SIL planned everything and paid for most of it (I bought her jewellery, my uncle paid for her car, just wee bits they didn’t pay for). Their wedding was small, but big reception. And no kids at the wedding, but one exception; her little sister, my youngest, who is 14yrs younger (I know, BIG surprise!!)!! Her sisters dress cost more than her bridal dress, her sister had her own ‘wedding certificate’ she got to sign and was included in sooo much!!! My SIL siblings who were there, who have kids, completely understood the ‘no kids’ part and why there was one exception.
    THATS what you do when you love others!!!!
    BTW, my oldest is now a Mum to my gorgeous grandson, and both her and SIL still include my youngest (now 11) in sooo much!! My grandson adores his auntie!! And she’s my SIL sister, not sister-in-law!! Cos they are AWESOME PEOPLE!!!
    Yes, I’m biased and bragging, but in this instance, I totally get too, for raising awesome girls!!! xx

  • Iridian Seraph
    Iridian Seraph Il y a 4 jours

    I feel that last one. My dad had 2 weddings (one in china with her family, one is the US with ours) and I was told I wasn't allowed to attend either one. I was 14 and it did sting.

  • Melody Fowler
    Melody Fowler Il y a 8 mois +2

    The one about the 9 year old made me sick... he is really picking his new girlfriend over his daughter and her feelings 🤦🏼‍♀️... gross!

  • Jules G
    Jules G Il y a 3 mois

    Imagine prioritizing how your wedding looks over spending time with your friends and family and sharing a special day with them. 😬

  • lisa foos
    lisa foos Il y a 9 mois

    Charlotte, you are amazing.
    You are funny and pretty insightful.
    You always make me laugh. : ) Thanks.

  • bless this crazy mess
    bless this crazy mess Il y a 9 mois +1908

    Picked his fiance over his 9 year old daughter. I can see why he's divorced.

    • ilivace
      ilivace Il y a 2 mois +1

      @Kai isJello whoever that troll is doesn’t deserve a good life lol. Don’t wish them a good life hahaha

    • aeoli garlic
      aeoli garlic Il y a 6 mois +5

      I can imagine big sis is also abusive, what kind of teenager gets along well with a middle age bridezila and never vouch for her sibling at all!?

    • britvica
      britvica Il y a 7 mois +6

      @Benja Lucian you asking ME that? Ahahahahaha look what YOU wrote!!!

    • Benja Lucian
      Benja Lucian Il y a 7 mois

      @britvica - what sort of selfish person has kids EXPECTING them to take care of them in their old age?

    • britvica
      britvica Il y a 7 mois +5

      @Benja Lucian haha...daughter in law that doesn't want her mans kid at the wedding is going to take care of his parents when they get old? Ahahahahahahaha

  • Nicole Courter
    Nicole Courter Il y a 3 mois +1

    So while I could have had an expensive wedding I chose not too. I took the money we would have spent on a wedding and purchased new furniture/decorations to make our house a home.
    We spent approximately $5k on the day and it was perfect. The most important thing to me was photos and having a good time. Our wedding photographer was half the budget and worth every penny! Our reception was low key. I just wanted people to come and have fun ... We even had friends whose kids wore PJ's so they were ready for bed on their way home. I thought it a little unorthodox, but I didn't care. Weddings are a big scam in my opinion. 🤷‍♀️

  • KendraPlayzRoblox Gamer
    KendraPlayzRoblox Gamer Il y a 6 mois

    After watching these videos, I am so pleased that my husband and I had a special wedding in Cancun Mexico. Private, secluded and very beautiful not to mention no family drama! Wouldn’t change a thing.

  • K A
    K A Il y a 9 mois +2

    Okay really simple. You bring your youngest to the wedding but not the reception. Weddings aren't the fancy part and your own child is the exception to the no child rule.

  • Preston Tice
    Preston Tice Il y a 2 mois

    Just found your channel. You're hilarious. I love your sense of humor! 😂🙂

  • Donnie Patt
    Donnie Patt Il y a 9 mois +2576

    "Am I the asshole for not inviting my daughter to the wedding?" Yes...yes you are. I don't need to hear the story

    • Tary Sunshine
      Tary Sunshine Il y a 5 mois +1

      @Jadakiss Pinkett some sophisticated women like & have children too

    • Muryx
      Muryx Il y a 6 mois +15

      @Jadakiss Pinkett If she were ACTUALLY sophisticated, she wouldn't have a problem seeing--and celebrating--the humanity in ANY fellow human being, whether that person is 90 years or 9 months old.
      Instead, her behavior is laughably, appallingly, almost satirically the opposite of true sophistication.
      The correct term to describe the fiancée's attitude is: "pathetic."

    • Nherty
      Nherty Il y a 6 mois +23

      Cherry on top of the cake, his parents said they wouldn't be coming to the wedding but will instead be taking their granddaughter for a day out to have fun so she doesn't feel sad. And he was pissed and thought his parents were the unreasonable ones.

  • DEJAGERFAM
    DEJAGERFAM Il y a 2 mois +1

    My wedding was TINY. I had my youngest sister as my maid of honor, and my husband had his brother. We ate pizza, salad, and soup (we got married in December and my mom makes bomb beef stew) we also played a bunch of board games. I was more interested in having a fun time and we didn’t have a whole lot of money and we didn’t want our parents to take out loans for us that would have interest to pay back. Kinda glad I did if this is the kind of drama I avoided

  • Angela MacaKelly
    Angela MacaKelly Il y a 8 mois +3

    When my dad was getting remarried he was telling me the date when I realised that'd I'd be away to Oz (from Scotland) on that date, he looked me straight in the eye and without blushing stated that it was OK as I wasn't invited any way, but nit to worry as none of my siblings (his children) were invited either. I am one of 8 and the only daughter, needless to say knowing my dad I just laughed as I expected nothing less.
    Another story, in posting my invites out I turned yo my mum when it was dad's invire and said "what a waste of a stamp" I was correct he declined to come so my mum gave me away. Dad lives on the same city as me he just chose to not come, no card either, however, fear not I neither bothered nor cared and had a fantastic day. My mum walked me down the aisle and I had all my brothers with me too. Perfect day 👌🏽

  • Kei -Chan
    Kei -Chan Il y a 4 mois

    I’ve been in the situation of the first guys daughter. My dads ex-gf of 6-7 years didn’t like what I wore or that i hugged him. She said it made “him” uncomfortable. He later sided with her on a lot of things. This strained our relationship so much and she has since been kicked to the curb

  • Adela Robo
    Adela Robo Il y a 6 mois

    Soon as you said “as a Virgo” it explained everything why I love your sense of humor and all your videos #Virgopower (we sure are all about perfection damn it) 😂😂😂 Love it!

  • Deb
    Deb Il y a 9 mois +4

    that last one broke my heart; what kind of a father would treat a 9-year old like that?

  • love yourself please
    love yourself please Il y a 9 mois +2

    Woooow, so my daughter already has trauma from her mother leaving when she was 6 so let's prioritize what sounds like a very snobby & materialistic woman over her now just to really grind in her growing distrust of the adults in her life. While we're at it I should also make her feel like I love my older daughter more than her. Also, if your daughter's mom "left" when she was 6 & she's now 9 but you've been dating your now fiance for 3 years.....how does that work? Did you meet your now fiance 5 min after she left or were you cheating on her & she was forced to leave?

  • Lenaa Martin
    Lenaa Martin Il y a 4 mois

    It's always funny and disturbing to see this obsession with weddings that these ultra-religious countries have.
    It would be nice to see these women having something more important in their lives than a wedding party.
    I would never hurt one of my friends over a stupid wedding photo.

  • The Blyss Catalyst
    The Blyss Catalyst Il y a 6 mois +1

    “As a virgo, I can understand wanting things to be symmetrical all the time” 😂 that got me lol #relatable

  • Liz Pantelis
    Liz Pantelis Il y a 9 mois +896

    Bruh! the 9 year old daughter's mother left when she's 6... and he's leaving her out of his wedding??? that poor baby is freshly dealing with abandonment and is being excluded from her parent's wedding? that's beyond being an asshole.

    • Fatima H.
      Fatima H. Il y a 6 mois +2

      There's still more to the story, the young daughter tells her grandparents everything (his parents) and they told him that they will not be attending the wedding as they will spend the day with his young daughter so she wouldn't feel left out and he ends up lashing out at them for that. Sooo, at this point its like he wants his young daughter to suffer...
      Also, if the wedding is not appropriate for kids, let her stay for awhile at least let her enjoy herself and then ask someone to take her back home when things get inappropriate for her age

    • ejrilling
      ejrilling Il y a 6 mois +2

      @Dan
      She’s 7 years younger than him not 17 but he is more concerned about his fiancé than he is about his own daughter who’s literally still a CHILD & was abandoned by her own mother!!
      Father of the year right there! 👎

    • Katherine Bass
      Katherine Bass Il y a 6 mois +4

      And the sister isn't helping for sure. The poor baby is going to have issues as an adult. She won't know anything about dating a real man.

    • Dan
      Dan Il y a 6 mois +3

      He seems very busy and proud of himself for marrying a woman who's 17 years younger than him to be concerned about her daughter's needs

  • Ana Maria Cratib
    Ana Maria Cratib Il y a 9 mois +1

    That wedding invitations was hilarious to me lol 😂

  • Codi McHugh
    Codi McHugh Il y a 26 jours

    At my uncle an aunts wedding they had two groomsmen walk the last bridesmaid down, as my aunt also didn't want/ have another bridesmaid. Everyone at the wedding thought it was funny and called the bridesmaid "a lucky girl". Compromise is so easy, people are just selfish.

  • Rebecca Woodward
    Rebecca Woodward Il y a 9 mois +1

    When my best friend was getting married, my sister was 17. She has known her since birth. She said she wasn't invited to the wedding because it was a child free wedding and they were paying for alcohol per guest. My mum and another friend of ours don't drink and they were also invited. We didn't see it as a big issue and it was fine. But it was just interesting.

  • Deborahl256
    Deborahl256 Il y a 8 mois

    The bridal party one, I had the opposite problem. I wanted 4 bridesmaids, my husband only wanted 3 groomsmen. He wouldn't budge, and I honestly didn't fight to hard on it. One of my ladies couldn't make it and I ended up 3 and 3 anyway *shrug

  • nomnomduder
    nomnomduder Il y a 9 mois +381

    the dude that's okay with his fiancee hating his 9 year old daughter to the point that he's perfectly fine with his own daughter not being allowed to come to the wedding because his fiancee doesn't want her there is flipping WILD. i wont even consider a relationship with someone who doesn't like my dog and he's planning on marrying someone who doesn't like one of his own children??? that does not sound like a lasting relationship

    • ilivace
      ilivace Il y a 2 mois +2

      @Miz Mima I think that IS her…

    • Benja Lucian
      Benja Lucian Il y a 6 mois

      @Miz Mima - defending a woman who gets along fine with one stepdaughter and whose dream wedding is childfree. Is that such a crime?

    • Miz Mima
      Miz Mima Il y a 6 mois +3

      @Benja Lucian You’re actually defending her! Wtf is wrong with you people!

    • Fun Size
      Fun Size Il y a 7 mois +6

      @Shawn Clearly this dude not only resents his younger daughter for existing, he wants her to know it. I hope to fucking hell the grandparents get custody of that poor girl, since her father seems to be doing everything he can to make sure she knows she's unwanted.

  • Caroline schofield
    Caroline schofield Il y a 9 mois +2

    A wedding is about celebrating love. If the love you have as a couple is gong to be affected or destroyed by bridesmaid hairstyles or uneven numbers in the wedding party maybe you shouldn't be getting married 🤷‍♀️

  • Fake Username
    Fake Username Il y a 9 mois +1

    Last one just breaks my heart. What an absolutely useless parent. 💔

  • Tonya Dear
    Tonya Dear Il y a 9 mois +2

    Charlotte my wife and I just found your channel,a month or so, ago. We absolutely love you!!! We also just started watching the unbreakable Kimmi Shmitt. I swear her personality is all you lol. Doing great girl!

  • Amy Wilkins
    Amy Wilkins Il y a 5 mois +1

    That is crazy. My son was 6 when my husband and I got married. He was okay with it. He bought lawn games to keep the kids busy while people danced and had fun, he also read vows to my son saying he will always be there for him no matter what and how lucky he is to be my sons dad. If he said I couldn't bring my son to my wedding there would be no wedding.

  • Nicole Lavigne
    Nicole Lavigne Il y a 9 mois +1449

    Apparently people’s visions for their wedding days does not *actually* include their friends, only perfect background stand-ins that will perfectly match their aesthetics. Any hints that your friends are real people with personalities and differences don’t really fit.
    Bridezilla upset about bridesmaid getting depressed? Depressed friend should ditch bridezilla.

    • Holly Snow
      Holly Snow Il y a 4 mois

      I think the thing that makes it different is that the depressed bridesmaid does wear wigs for formal events. It doesn't seem that unreasonable to ask her to wear one she already has.

    • alyzu
      alyzu Il y a 6 mois

      Yup. They should just go to Central Casting and hire a bunch of pretty background actors who will look happy.
      But then they'd have to pay them.

    • Knitted Fingers
      Knitted Fingers Il y a 9 mois +1

      @sincerelyDIF seriously how is a short hairstyle going to draw attention away from the bride? that is ridicoulous. Everyone is there because of the bride and groom and she will be the centre of attention. She will only draw attention if she dyes it bright pink or something and even then, the bride is always going to get the attention as she is the one saying the vowels, cutting the wedding cake, dancing with the groom and being in the centre of all photos. Seems to me that the bride is making it a big deal when the hairstyle isnt. Or maybe I value my friends more then an aesthetic wedding photo but that's just my moral values

    • sincerelyDIF
      sincerelyDIF Il y a 9 mois +2

      @Petite Sayo nah you’re not coming as you are when you’re apart of the bridal party. If you want to look like you normally do then just be a guest. Y’all have a problem accepting that everything is not about you and your feelings. This day is about the bride and groom and the wedding is literally about the friends and family supporting them. Being in the wedding party is a commitment and more than just showing up. Themes and photo shoots are common and nobody is forcing them to be in the wedding if they don’t like it.

    • Petite Sayo
      Petite Sayo Il y a 9 mois +1

      @sincerelyDIFThe idea of a "photoshoot vision" is in itself ridiculous. Your friends aren't your models, they're your friends and you should want to see them as they are.
      What is the next step ? Asking your friends to dye their hair blong because it suits your "photoshoot vision" ?

  • Queen B
    Queen B Il y a mois +1

    The fathers in two of these stories putting their fiancé before their children is even more disturbing to me than the women being bridezillas. You shouldn't put ANYONE above your children! I've been married for 19 years and one of the things I love most about my husband is that I know without a doubt that our children always come first with him! A few years ago we had plans to go out for a nice dinner for our anniversary. Our youngest was excited to be spending the night at a friend's house, but our oldest was at an age where he could stay home alone. We were going to leave him some pizza money and figured he'd be on his Xbox most of the night. When my husband got back from taking our daughter to her friend's house, our son came out and asked what time all of us were leaving to eat. My husband and I just looked at each other, shrugged and told him to be ready in 20 minutes. The three of us had a really nice night together! It was great to spend some time with just him, especially since he was at an age where usually kids don't want to hang out too much with their parents. And now we have a funny little story about how he third wheeled us and ended up making the night so much fun! And my husband and I learned that if just the two of us want to go out to eat, we'll do lunch while the kids are in school! 🤣

  • Matthew EJ Crepin
    Matthew EJ Crepin Il y a 9 mois +2

    Always surprised at how fast these seem to fly by…. Love seeing the best of humanity on display LOL

  • Jess the cat
    Jess the cat Il y a 4 mois +1

    The way I relate to the guy's daughter not being invited. When my dad's fiance died I wasn't invited to her funeral because it was "just close friends and family".

  • MediocreSimRacer
    MediocreSimRacer Il y a 3 mois

    This is insane. I have ended a relationship because I did not like how my SO treated my daughter. This to any normal and rational parent is a no brainer! Children come first end of story. No woman/man on earth is worth doing that to your child. I would honestly like to say something to this guys face. What a POS.
    Your channel has become my guilty pleasure. Keep up the amazing work!

  • Mrs_Maverick
    Mrs_Maverick Il y a 9 mois +434

    As a child who wasn’t invited to my father’s wedding because it was ‘adults only’ and my children who were left out of their father’s wedding even though HER children were there, it causes severe emotional damage to children to do that to them!!!

    • Sharyn Eubanks
      Sharyn Eubanks Il y a mois

      I'm so very sorry.😔

    • Liana
      Liana Il y a 6 mois +1

      That's just f**%ed up. Sorry 🙁

    • Michelle Heidler
      Michelle Heidler Il y a 6 mois +1

      I never understood no kids at weddings. ??? When I got married everyone was invited.

    • Mish
      Mish Il y a 9 mois +2

      Maybe have a talk with your kids father, if you haven't, to remind him that these big events are the first steps to leading the kids away from him and towards resentment and anger. I believe a father is a huge part to a child's upbringing but not if the relationship is damaging to the child(ren). I would personally flick him in the nose and call him a donkey!! I am so sorry for what you and your children went through. That's not right. No child deserves to be hurt, especially by those who they have learned to trust to protect them.

  • Donna Dieter
    Donna Dieter Il y a 9 mois +2

    Goodness! We went out of our way to add the phrase "children welcome" on our invitations! We had a small, county park, morning ceremony; there was no need to exclude children.

  • Danielle Sherwood
    Danielle Sherwood Il y a 3 mois +1

    One of the reasons that wedding cake was so expensive Karen is because it's actual edible gold cascading down that gorgeous cake that i know for a fact takes days to make. Yikes lol

  • omgthisissoawesome
    omgthisissoawesome Il y a 9 mois +1

    Ok, so I've seen this in a couple of Bridezilla videos and I'm genuinely curious - what's wrong with asking people to donate to your honeymoon fund instead of buying gifts for you? I mean, I feel like it's a nice way to allow people to donate as much as they want to/can afford. Isn't that better than forcing people to buy expensive gifts off a registry? Especially if it's something the couple really wants? Anyway, LOVE the bridezilla stuff as always!!

  • Dr Woo
    Dr Woo Il y a 6 mois +4

    What’s the last situation got to do with if he “don’t wear the pants”? It’s not about who’s in control, it’s about caring for his child. He could have said she was invited to the reception, and bought her a nice dress to wear. But, I wouldn’t marry someone if they didn’t get on with my little girl! The poor kid is gonna be f@caked up!

  • Wendy Lott
    Wendy Lott Il y a 7 mois +1

    When I got married I had a choice. Either have a wedding or have a down payment on our home. So I signed the paperwork and was married at the courthouse! No dress, no guest, no wedding! Because having a home is more important!

  • Jennifer Bateman
    Jennifer Bateman Il y a 9 mois +1

    Just before my wedding one of my bridesmaids broke her wrist so she was going to have a cast. She called me and felt horrible about it because of pictures. Did I kick her out of my wedding and get angry with her?! No! I told her she didn’t need to worry and that I am just very happy she can still celebrate with us! And yes, of course, she was still a bridesmaid.

  • Kendralyn Forest Photography

    That wedding invite or whatever it was, was hysterical and perfect lmfao.

  • Tianna Stuckey
    Tianna Stuckey Il y a 3 mois

    My wedding was literally 38 dollars lmao I was very happy with it I love my husband very much 🥰