Awful Weddings YOU WON'T BELIEVE Happened - REACTION

You know what? That first one WAS a good test.
The groom’s family failed and the groom passed with flying colors.
I’m happy the wife is getting someone who will look out for her like that.

The first man is a keeper ! He defended his wife and acted on his words. He went as far as kicking his own mother to protect his wife, that’s a good man.

Finally a man that actually has a spine in the whole family.

Dude, that first one just makes me mad. He is not the asshole, the women in his family are. That's very plain and true.

Actually, my EX husbands family all showed up to our wedding wearing all black to show that they all disapproved of me. I cried throughout the whole wedding and then followed up with more crying as they continually yelled at me throughout the whole reception. He is my EX for a reason. However, I gave that man 17 years of my life where I tried and tried to be what they wanted. Gladly, I did NOT turn into what they wanted and am now happily with a wonderful man that has a family full of the most beautiful, thoughtful people. There are a ton of horrid people out there. Lesson in this is: Never stop being you for someone else. You be yourself.

Kudos to this guy for not enabling their behaviour and standing up for his wife. Hats off. No need to apologise AT ALL

The first guy is prime husband material. That's EXACTLY how you handle disrespectful family members no matter who they are. Great job. No matter what anyone says, he is not an a-hole. All his family members who were a part of this should be ashamed! He didn't ruin his wedding. If the wedding was ruined, it was most certainly not his fault but theirs.

I actually had the experience of having a friend of my soon-to-be sister-in-law's, who is a professional photographer, offer to shoot our wedding for free. I felt bad and offered to pay her (even though we couldn't afford much), and she said just give her what it costs for gas money to get there and back. She was amazing and took excellent pictures. If she hadn't of been so kind, we would have asked someone in our family to snap photos. I found out later that she had spent a lot of time at my in-laws' house growing up and did this for them since it was their first -- and probably only -- kid getting married. What good luck. What a good heart.

I’d say a group of women who want to know if another woman is a “decent” person, all while they are exhibiting imbecilic, indecent behavior, is extremely disturbing.

Nothing quite says "welcome to the family" like belittling, ridiculing, and humiliating someone. It certainly speaks volumes of how the women in that family perceive what a healthy family unit is like, especially if they genuinely believe that they're supporting and loving each other with that sort of atrocious mob mentality.

Re: the photographer changing MIL's white dress to red...they would have earned a HUGE tip from me, not to mention an invite to my family gatherings forever.

“It’s just a prank”
Who wants to be pranked on their wedding? What would they have done if the bride did go crazy? Run around in circles and cheer?

The last one has me laughing at the bride's logic. She doesn't want someone who is an ex in her wedding photos, but she's marrying someone she has known for less than a year and her BFF has been with her fiance for 10 years. Hmmm...what if the "ex" in the wedding photos ends up being the groom that she barely knows? 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

I have never commented on a public forum such as this, however, as a marriage counselor I must say congratulations to this bride and groom. They are starting their life off together in good form. The grooms family behaved as bullies- as you stated-at the very least and I would say were emotionally abusive to their new family member. Partners should nurture and protect each other and that is exactly what this young man did.

Shout out to the man with the insecure female family members who have to break down other women who try to become family. I’m EXTREMELY PROUD of YOU for sticking up for your wife💕💕💕 it means a lot!!💕

The man in the first story deserves everything, dealing with a group of toxic relatives isn’t easy AT ALL

Okay so it turns out, my partner's mom's friend happened to be friends with our wedding photog. Friend had been invited to the wedding as well as much of HER family. So at one point during the reception, this friend TOOK THE PHOTOGRAPHER to another room and had her do a whole family portrait session. A few weeks later, when partner and I were happily going through all the lovely pictures, all of a sudden there were literally HUNDREDS of posed pictures of this "friend" and her family. WTF?! Uh, you're welcome for the free personal photo shoot?! 12 years later I still get pissed thinking about what precious moments from my actual wedding the photographer missed while this entitled "friend" was commandeering her for what was probably a full half hour.

That first guy is how every husband should defend his wife to his family.

Wow. The grandmother and the mother are the ones who started the whole tradition. Sounds about right to me. Couldn’t let go of Junior, had to take it out on his lady and find a pretext to explain it away. I find it very reassuring that the groom saw thru this BS and stood up for his bride. Going against family like that isn’t easy, even if it’s the right thing to do.

I’m thinking the best friend that don’t invite her pregnant friends fiancé messed around with him. Sounds like a guilt fuelled situation to me.

Even if you're not Christian, the Bible says a man should leave his mother and go become one with his wife. Historically, this has been a problem for thousands of years.🤣

Well being the smart-ass that I am, when I found out what they were going to do, I would have bought myself a black wedding dress and marched proudly down the aisle! Black seems appropriate for marrying into this cult! That would surely have got a reaction from them 🤣🤣

First guy: not the a-hole. If anything, he seems like a good guy in a toxic family. I hope he and his wife have a good life.

The first groom was standing up to bullies, pure & simple, it wasn’t just the white dresses at his wedding but the whole pattern of abuse. Kudos to the groom, his brother and dad for refusing to accept this and shame on those women-they should be embarrassed at their immature behavior

Another note to the first story: I guess any man coming into the family is fine? Or are they also going through some kind of messed up shit to be accepted? I am sensing it’s only women going through this, which makes it even more infuriating 🙄

Remember: If someone's trying to pull you down that means they're already beneath you.”

That is why I love Mexican and ol school weddings where everyone in the family and the whole town gets invited and joins in. My mothers' wedding was MASSIVE and this was Cuba in the 1970s 10 years after Communism took over the island yet my mom was able to get the whole city involved. The stories of having huge kegs that held over 50 gallons of beer and other alcohol as well as mountain of food, 8 large boar-like pigs killed and roasted wasn't just for friends and family, but for the whole neighborhood and town!!! 😳Kids, elders, youths...everyone got involved. There were even strangers in my moms' wedding photo album and my mom goes, "OH, he is the local bum who collected enough money during the party and gave it to me as a present." Like BRUH! 😂 Hispanic weddings be wild. The stories of my moms' wedding are things that you simply can't make it up. To me such a massive whole city event makes sense really... it is to make sure everybody knew you and your spouse are together and it is a legal contract that outside forces should stay the fuck off. Having that huge wedding makes sure everyone knew these people are married in order to prevent cheating. 🤔

I love that he stood up to all of them!! That is a man worth marrying. HE PASSED THE TEST!!!

To the bridezilla at the end:
She actually believe none of the married couples would ever divorce in her lifetime?

Seeing how awful some people's "friends" and relationships can be makes me feel less awful about not having any friends lol

I really liked this one! Makes me feel better. I had a horrible situation where an ex best friend asked me to help out with her wedding and cater it and then after I bought food and started making things for her she flipped a switch and asked for her money back. Acted like she couldn’t trust me. It was the worst bridezilla experience ever!!

It's comforting that the groom is sane and stood up for his wife. She choose a great partner.

My Husband’s family held a family meeting whether or not I was worthy to be part of their family after my husband proposed and I said Yes! (Thank god they all agreed that I was worthy and they told me they approve the engagement 🙄). I was supposed to be thankful that my engagement will not be canceled due to their kindness. My husband no longer talks to his family.

The MOH story shows pointed insult with "long term couples and marriages" and only excluding the one partner. I've heard of long-term couples being defined as one year together, but the bride wasn't making her decision on any kind of logic.
She also wasn't up front about it.

Genuinely so happy to see the first guy standing up for his wife. Too many of these stories end up with the hubby siding with mommy dearest instead of his s/o.

The first and last story truly had my blood boiling. I don't understand how there are still some people out there with such flawed logic.

Just my two cents on the groom who threw all the women out of his wedding. Good for him! Those women spent so many years in charge of the family, they didn't think he'd have the balls to actually kick them out. So, they got pissed that they lost control. Toxic women. I hope this guy and his wife stay far away from them. They don't need that crap.

I remember that first story. It really sounds like the new women join the teasing so they are no longer a victim of the bullying. It's like Mean Girls, joining in knowing they'd do it to you the second you defy them. It's the internalized misogyny for me...
I work a lot with weddings and I've cleaned up a mess or two for each, but families are one mess that I can only dust the surface of.

If that was my husband's family I'd let them all in, let them watch the wedding. I'd smile and invite all the women in white to take family pictures and I and my girl friends would re color their dresses in drinks from the bar while the photographer took beautiful pictures. Cheers🥂

Quoting my mom after she tore down a bridezilla: "Just because you're the bride, it doesn’t give you justification to being a $%#&ty person to everyone."

Hazing was the very first thing that came to my mind! The other females want to keep the tradition alive, only bc they had to emotionally “survive” it themselves in order to be accepted into the family….not a family I would be stepping in line to join in a hurry🥴

Re: the photographer changing MIL's white dress to red...they would have earned a HUGE tip from me, not to mention an invite to my family gatherings forever.

9:15 My cousin actually had something similar happen when she got married. Her MIL tried to schedule family pictures (as in only the groom’s side of the family) after the ceremony (before the reception), a time when the wedding party would be taking pictures with the bride and groom, and only texted her and told her the day before the wedding. Thankfully my cousin’s photographer had a clause in her contract saying that she could be the only photographer there that day, so my cousin blamed her. Still a really crappy thing to do, though.

The cake reminded me of Ms. Havisham's cake from Great Expectations. I thought it looked like spider webs until Charlotte kept raising her eyebrow in her naughty little way...🤔😲😳🤭

I’m so relieved this story is written by the man, with my experience on AITA I was NOT expecting that. I was expecting it to be the woman and AT BEST she said her husband “did nothing”
It’s honestly refreshing seeing a decent dude on that Reddit lol

the friend with the 10 year relationship is definitely leaving something out of this story. It is probably the secrets she's told her friend and because of those secrets her friend knows her guy is a pos. it legit is the bride decision on who she wants at her wedding. damn how everyone else does their wedding. I respect the bride for telling her ahead of time and not telling everyone else first.

The first story... His new wife doesn't have to 'earn' her place in his family because clearly, those people aren't his family to begin with. The fact that despite him making it clear he won't tolerate it on HIS wedding day, they went ahead and did it. They're not just attacking his wife, they clearly has no respect for him too.
I think its sometimes very difficult to see toxic personalities in your own family because you've almost been conditioned to love and forgive one another but I personally think... Good riddance.

I went to my first wedding in the USA, My stepgranfather's granddaughter was getting married. I was 16. Having never gone to a US wedding I showed my grandmother and asked her which dress I should wear. She said white. I did not know it was rude. However, I was so shy. I hid during the reception outside the house listening to music and gave the bride many compliments.

The first guy is fabulous, and I’m so glad he stood up for his wife and himself!

If the family members planned to change clothes after seeing the bride’s reaction, they could have changed and attended the wedding when the groom wouldn’t allow them in. Kudos to the groom to not allow family to bully the bride and disrespect the couple. The further this couple removes themselves from this toxic family, they will have a much better life.

Great job mom, this is exactly what you need to do to push your own son away. I feel sorry for the Dad because if the son needs to leave that toxic environment, the dad might be left behind as well in the process.

The serial killer centerpieces fill me with so much rage. It’s so disrespectful to the victims and their families. Imagine being so selfish and stupid that you’d glorify the worst things that could happen to a person. I honestly can’t get over it.

I love it that the husband took care of things instead of allowing the bride to be bullied or mistreated on any level.

Everyone wearing white: I would have had a "Prank" set up of my own with supersoakers full of fabric dye. Hand them out to the groomsmen and brides maids and tell them that anyone wearing white (aside from me: the bride and the unavoidable white shirt tux) was to be mercilessly drenched. If they complian, I would just shrug and say "you were warned. It was just a fun prank to test how you would react"
Ted bundy isn't so awful when you consider Dahmer had a bit of a diet
Livestream tickets: it sounds like they have a lot of support going in. 10 dollars is fair, I'd say. Make it worth watching, that's all.
Uninvited fiancé: elope now. Husbands get an automatic in.

I WISH I HAD A MAN WHO WOULD DEAL WITH THESE TYPES OF PEOPLE WITHOUT ME HAVING TO SAY ANYTHING. godsend.

I genuinely hope that when/if my boyfriend and I get married that his family would never do something as insecure and petty as the first story, and if they did that he would shut it down immediately. That first guy is a walking green flag just for having the spine to stand up to his family like that

I’m seriously hoping the changing the white dresses to red thing catches on with photographers everywhere! That is genius.

The women in the first story have 'peaked in high school' and 'I own my own business... I work with an MLM' energy.

His wife will LOVE that he stood up for her! My hubby supported me in a similar way and it was a amazing! The step mother in law now loves me!

Instant solve: the hubby should've teamed up with his wife to get a second HOT RED gown to change into just in case. I mean come on, you knew who you were dealing with. Sometimes got to fight fire with fire. She could have strolled down the isle in red with a smile.

I’m excited for my wedding in the future. I’m in a lesbian relationship, and while my family would probably be mostly fine with it, their family? dear gods. name a type of discrimination and they probably are. all i can say is we’re definitely not getting their blessings.

The groom stood up for what was right and stood up for his bride. The white-wearers are as Charlotte said…… bullies.

There seems to be a high level of insecurity about her own relationship if she's judging someone who's been in a ten year one.

If my family acted like the ones in the first anecdote, I would have parted ways from them long before meeting my own life partner. (At least, from the ones who participated in this childish hazing behavior.) These aren't isolated incidents. It demonstrates a lack of consideration and respect that I wouldn't want to associate with, family or not.

The livestream one - I’m hoping that these people have a following online, and their followers want to watch their wedding? So they’d presumably invite their friends and family as guests to the actual wedding, and then fans could buy tickets to watch the livestream?
I really hope that’s what this is. 😂

that first guy is absolutely amazing. sticking up for your partner and cutting toxic people out is top quality.
he even warned them he would kick them out. like, bruh.

The women, in the first story, are horrible people. I wonder what must be going around, in their heads, that would make this activity seem like a decent idea. When did being a bully become a wedding gift? The husband is a wonderful man, as it must have taken a lot of inner strength, standing with his wife, amid a clique of childish, ancient "mean girls". If this was done in my presence, words would fly, all tact gone, and everyone would be surprised, including myself, over things being said. Whether it's my place or not, that behavior is unacceptable....especially when spoken by grown people. How awful!

client :"we need a photographer to capture us at our wedding"
me: "I might have a net big enough for that, challenge accepted."

I think the one where they wanted to sell tickets to a livestream wedding probably wasn't for friends and family but for followers. The way they spoke sounded like they were influencers of some sort

"Every woman in my family showed up to my wedding wearing white. I kicked them out of the wedding and now they wont talk to me and excluded me from everything." "They excluded me from everything." Chalk that one up to win!!! lol It's always nice when the bullies remove themselves from the situation! lol

The last wedding I was at....the bride's mother's best friend wore a white lace dress! I thought ; imagine the other female guests had also worn white, it would have been awful. This woman was about 60....old enough to know better.
As a woman, I wouldn't dream of it. A cream trouser suit is about the closest outfit to a white dress that would be acceptable

1st story: I'm so glad that man stood up for his wife. Good for him

Absofrickinglutly amazing 👍🏻💯
Thank you for supporting your wife straight up. 35 years of marriage lived with a husband that could NEVER stand up for me. His Mother opened ALL my wedding gift and displayed them in the reception hall. Her response to my frustration, “I just thought you’d be too tired to open them” That Bitch!

Last story reminds about the time my cousin had his wedding and he didn't invite his younger sister's boyfriend although they have been together for few years then and now they're married. It was in 2012 and they still don't talk. (Me, my brother, two other cousins, my parents and another aunt weren't inviated too to his wedding, neither her wedding and neither to their sister wedding).

I’ve read every book, watched every documentary about every serial killer and studied criminology but to glorify these mentally disturbed people is absolutely twisted and wrong on so many levels!! 🤦🏼‍♀️

The serial killer thing is gross. Those men had real victims with real families who went through unspeakable things. It's not "quirky" to use them as decoration in a celebration. If you want to do a horror theme, fine, but use fictional killers like Hannibal Lecter or Norman Bates, etc. rather than trivializing the pain of real people.

Yikes! That first family sounds crazy! Well done to the groom for sticking up for his wife.

(1st story) He’s a great husband 👏🏿 he stood his ground, and defended his wife♥️

9:14 that’s *totally* something my sister-in-law would do if she had the money for!!! 🙄

The photographer one reminds me of a similar thing that Happened at my cousins wedding. One of the groomsmen's mothers had been invited, and she definitely thought that meant she was a VIK (Very Important Karen.) During the vows, the photographer happened to be kneeling next to her in the aisle while taking photos. This woman had the audacity to tap the photographer on the shoulder and shove her phone in his hand so he can take a picture for her! He quickly held the phone up and got a few snaps before going back to do HIS job of photographing the day. Kudos to the guy for handling the Karen situation so calmly. I would have punched her lights out!

All those women in story one absolutely peaked in high school and never grew up after that.
Good on the husband for defending his wife from his waste dump of a family.

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Yes! I'm glad the groom tossed them out. And his family is toxic AF. I would have told them to toss off.

Absolutely love Charlotte! Been binge watching your videos and...... Phenomenal job! I'm ctfu over here! All hail the #PotatoQueen 💜🖤🥰

I can only congratulate your wife on having a man who stands up for her and does not slip away! Honor to you!

Oh boy, do I have wedding stories for you! The first one, I dodged the bullet. I did not marry him! That is a whole book of a story!
Second wedding I went through with it but my sister was being a complete psychopath. She is so narcissistic. We haven’t spoke since I demoted and uninvited her. That was 5 years ago! We’ve never had the best relationship and I did try to have one with her. She made it extremely difficult. My wedding was her final chance. I should’ve known, people don’t change.

On that last one: Being able to stay together for 10 years WITHOUT the bond of marriage is a really strong thing. I mean, it is much easier to end, but they didn't. And the child is also only a thing now after those ten years, so that wasn't holding them together. If it's not love, what is it supposed to be then?

Charlotte, I am so glad I found your videos. : )
You are amazingly hilarious. I laugh every time.
btw, can't wait to try Scent Bird. That is going to be so cool!

@CharlotteDobre Here’s a story for ya : A former bff asked me to be a bridesmaid in her wedding and I said yes. Now, I have a hard time saving money so, having been friends with her for roughly 13 years, I asked her to hang onto the $400 I was putting aside for the dress. (She said that’s how much I would need). She agreed. Fast forward several months, and it’s now a week till the wedding is supposed to take place. All the other bridesmaids have gotten their dresses, and had their fittings. Me? My dress hasn’t even arrived yet. I wasn’t panicking though because the bride knew my sizes and everything, so I figured she was taking care of it herself. Well. Fast forward to a few days before the wedding, and the news breaks that the whole thing is canceled because the bride decided to have a one night stand with an ex. Classy, right? I don’t ask for my money right away because bride is devastated over what she had done. So, being a good friend, I waited a few weeks for things to settle down and started asking for my money back. She came up with every G damn excuse in the book for why she couldn’t give me my money atm. Fast forward AGAIN, this time a few years, and I still don’t have my money so I decided to confront her. Turns out she had no intention of having me in her wedding and had used my $400 to pay for part of her dress, and her parents and siblings were in on it. Of course because it’s been a few years it’s not like I can really do anything about it. It’s been 4, maybe 5 years since then and she keeps saying shes saving up to pay me back. I’m never going to see that money again, and 13 years of friendship went down the drain because of her greed, selfishness, scheming, and lies. But somehow it’s my fault. Tell me true, am I the A.H here? 🤷🏼‍♀️

That photographer deserves all the recommendations and all the stars. way to go above and beyond the call of duty

To the first story👏👏👌👌
I was in a relationship with so much toxicity as that family harrasing their son/brother/cousin's wife. Good for him for standing up for her. My ex NEVER did when it came to his sisters...only when it came to my siblings.

I'm a forensic scientist and genuinely love learning about serial killers, murder, and the works (partially since it is my job) but those serial killer center pieces are a little too far for. I don't have a problem with with skulls and have them decorating my whole house, but the idea of including the people who commit these terrible terrible acts in my wedding is just sad to me. Weddings are supposed to be a happy celebration of life and love. I don't want to be thinking about all the women Bundy murdered

Wow, the level of absurdity is amazing with these people!
My husband and I dated almost 9 years before we got married. So many people would say "if he hasn't married you yet, he's not going to!" We have now been happily married for over 42 years! Ha!

Thing is, they went there knowing it was indecent, and that’s why it would be a test. One person, no problem, they’re being problematic and will be kindly escorted out, but this is an entire half of the family, and I doubt the dress code was white.
I hear the argument of “oh, but she’s being insecure, she should let the guests look the best they can,” all the time.
What I got to say is, why should you look your absolute best when you’re going to a event that is supposed to be someone else’s best day of their life? It’s not about you? Going to a wedding with intentions to look eye catching is humanly indecent, and even if the bride and groom are okay with it, doesn’t mean it isn’t selfish. Until the bride either has an absolutely expensive bejeweled dress or the dress code is white and she has a colored dress, you shouldn’t just wear white to someone’s wedding. I stand by this, and it doesn’t matter if the bride “is just being insecure” it doesn’t matter, it’s about the soon-to-be-married couple, not your need to feel glamorous or randomly wear white on someone else’s day as if you weren’t invited simply to support them.
There’s a difference between things you can’t change, and things that are you can. What you wear is labeled under simple change, no need to make a big deal, as long as you look nice and neat your fine. No one’s going to be all eyes on you anyways if your not confident as you are Karen.

The first story is just messed up I'm glad that her husband is standing up for her and had enough of their bullsh*t and aware of it. I agree it is toxic.

Subscribed ! I've been binge watching this to get my mind off of things, girl you're hilarious ahahahaha

That they all went along with it is unreal. Not one refused to do it or warned the couple what was gonna happen

We livestreamed our wedding and I would never charge for that, lmao. We had no pro audio set up, it was a phone on a tripod (that ended up being SIDEWAYS and we were too busy to notice so everyone watched the wedding turning their head) so....yeah

Bonus points for the use of the word “execute” in the serial killer wedding post!😱🤣

Never heard of such a childish behaving family as the one of the first groom. This day is not about THEM but about the grooms! Quite a narcissistic bully-move!

First story: They went ahead with their plans even after lying to you and claiming they "would never do such a thing" when you confronted them. So the women in your family are misogynistic liars, too. I suspect this goes deeper, with these women simply NOT HAVING THE PROPER CLOTHES TO WEAR TO A WEDDING! It's too easy to always wear the same thing!